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Why I Won't Lead Kids in a Salvation Prayer at VBS


VBS is just a couple of weeks away at the church where I serve.


I will be sharing the Gospel each night at the large group time.  


But I will not be leading the kids in a salvation prayer. 


Here's why.


When I first started serving in children's ministry, I would share the Gospel and then I would lead a large group prayer with the kids who raised their hands for salvation.


But over time, I begin to question this approach. 


Did I share the Gospel clearly enough for their age levels?


How do I know if the kids understand what they are doing?


So...I did this. 


I started having trained counselors ready who could talk with the kids who raised their hand for salvation. They talked with the kids individually.  I felt better about this.  Now we could determine who understood and who didn't. 


But there was still something missing. When parents came to pick up their child, we would tell the parents that their child had accepted Jesus as their Savior.  The parents would be happy for the most part, but I could also sense they wished they could have been a part of it.  This made sense.  I needed to involve the parents in the process.  


So...I did this. 


Instead of praying for salvation with the kids, we created a class they could attend with their parents.  The class is called Starting Point and in this class, we share the Gospel thoroughly.  Parents attend the class with their child...no drop offs.  


At the end of the class, parents can pray a prayer of salvation with their child if they feel their child understands and is ready.  


As we involved parents, we begin to see them lead their children to Jesus.

And here's the cool thing.  We started seeing parents coming to Jesus as well. As they get in the class and hear the Gospel clearly explained, many of them come to Jesus as well.  


Think about this with me.

When you lead a child to Jesus, you change a life.  When you lead a parent to Jesus, you change an entire family.

We have been given the awesome opportunity to lead children and parents to Jesus.  It is not something that should be taken lightly.  It is the most important thing that we do.  



Your turn.


Do you lead kids in large group salvation prayers?  Why or why not?

Do you involve parents in the process?  Why or why not?

Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.

 
 
 

8 Comments


Mike
May 30

Not offering a salvation prayer to people you have just shared the gospel with is like having guests at your house and telling them about the dinner you just prepared and laid out on the table and not inviting them to come and dine... Satan doesnt like salvation prayers being offered or said for others to know what/how to be saved...

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Guest
7 days ago
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Thanks for sharing Mike. I see your perspective.. - Dale

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Jerry Moyer
May 29

On the night of October 8, 1871, D.L. Moody finished a message with some words he regretted for the rest of his life. So great was his remorse that he committed himself to never making the same mistake again. The title of Moody's sermon was "What Shall I Do with Jesus?" At the end, he announced, "Now I want you to take the question with you and think it over, and next Sunday I want you to come back and tell me what you're going to do with Him." But next Sunday never came. As Moody dismissed his audience, the nearby courthouse fire bell sounded. At the time, no one had any idea how serious the blaze would become. As…

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Guest
May 29

Why I still give altar calls or invitations to be born again I realize that a lot of the church world has moved away from doing alter calls during their services. Many people have questioned why I continue to use this method of evangelism. Let me start off by stating a few things that I see that would cause leaders to shy away from this method.

  1. I understand that just because someone comes forward during a service does not mean that a change has taken place in their lives and many people have walked away confused.

  2. Another reason would be because of abuse in the past with high pressure and preaching of hell fire and brimstone that would scare people into…

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Dale
May 29
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Thanks for taking time to share Jerry. Appreciate your heart for the Gospel and reaching the next generation.

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Dan Z
May 27

I appreciated the insight into why you don't lead a large group of kids in a salvation prayer. It is an individual commitment and some parents would like to be part of that faith commitment too. I understand the idea of the child raising their hand to make the commitment and then inviting the parent alongside the commitment of faith. Thank you for sharing.

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Dale
May 27
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Thanks Dan. Blessings.

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Steve B
May 27

What a GREAT recommendation!

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