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Connecting Parents...An Essential Part of Children's Ministry



When I first started in children's ministry over 33 years ago, I had a strategy that was not conducive to ministering to parents.


I thought my job was to reach and disciple children. And it was. But there was a vital part I was missing.


I was not spending time and effort into ministering to parents as well.

My thought process was - I'll minister to the children and the adult ministry can minister to the parents.

And that was partially true. Of course, adult ministry should focus on reaching and discipling parents. But so should children's ministry.

You have a unique opportunity. You see, you have an open door to minister to parents. Why? Because you are ministering to their children. And parent's obviously love their children. When you do something nice for a child...when you invest your time in a child...when you show that you care about a child...you quickly get the attention of their parents. Do something nice for my child and you've got my attention.

No matter how far a parent is away from God, if you do something nice for their child, you've got their attention.

Because of this, we should always be looking for ways to help parents. If ministering to parents is not in your job description, then write it in. It's just as important as your ministry to children.


How can you minister to parents and help them get connected to the church family (many times their first connection to the church will be through their child who attended first with a friend or family member)?


When a guest family shows up, make sure you not only help the child get to their class / service, but help the parents as well. Help them get connected. Give them info. about small groups. Walk with them to the worship service and introduce them to a few people.


Invite them to be part of your spiritual milestones. This is one of the best opportunities you have to get families connected to your church. Need more info about milestones? Click here for more about it.


Host parenting classes. It's time for children's ministries to take the lead and offer parenting classes. If the adult ministry is currently doing parenting classes, get involved and see how you can partner with them.


Invite them to serve. One of the best ways to get parents connected is to invite them to serve in children's ministry. Create a good culture for this and you will see parents get connected to other parents who they are serving with. I have often seen parents that serve together, start a small group. Create opportunities for parents to spend time together outside the services.

There are many parents who are lonely. Barna recently released some info about this.

  • 9% of Boomers (grandparents) feel lonely for at least some of each day.

  • Gen Xer's (parents of older children) say they are lonely 33% of the day.

  • Millennials (parents of younger children) say they are lonely 46% of the day.

Many of the parents in your ministry are lonely. They are searching for a way to get connected to other people. You have a great opportunity to not only get children connected, but parents as well.

As you plan for ministry in 2022, I want to challenge you to make connecting parents and helping disciple them to be one of your top priorities. Put your ideas on the calendar. It will be one of the best ministry shifts you can make.

Remember this...

When you reach a child, you change a life. When you reach parents, you change an entire family.
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